Sunday, December 14, 2008

Tagged for Christmas!

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? Wrapping paper, but bags are fun cause I can keep them and use them next year.
2. Real tree or Artificial? Artificial. It's just cheaper and easier for us!
3. When do you put up the tree? Hopefully right after Thanksgiving!
4. When do you take the tree down? Whenever we get home from traveling, usually around New Years.
5. Do you like eggnog? LOVE IT!!!
6. Favorite gift received as a child? Cabbage Patch Kids, tanning pass when I was like 14. My boss gave me a TV and DVD player the 2nd year I was at Smart Planet. That was AWESOME!!!
7. Hardest person to buy for? My dad
8. Easiest person/people to buy for? Probably the neices, until they are about 12.
9. Do you have a nativity set? Two, one from Taiwan and one from the Philippines.
10. Mail or email Christmas cards? Neither, we have sent Christmas cards once, I am bad at that stuff.
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? Uh, last year Ben wrapped a box of garbage(seriously) with a note at the bottom that said "You've been naughty this year, love Santa" ya, hilarious!
12. Favorite Christmas Movie? I actually don't enjoy Christmas movies, at all.
13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? We are procrastinators, it's usually 2 weeks before Christmas and it stresses me out
15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Chocolate Roll, fruit salad,..sweets
16. Lights on the tree? Clear
17. Favorite Christmas song? Oh Holy Night
18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Travel to Oregon on off years, and previous to this year we have traveled to Utah the other years. Now we live here so it's staying home. We like both and are glad we get to switch off.
19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer's? There's Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen, Comet and Cupid and Donner and Blitzen...and RUDOLPH! (thanks Jess, just copied and pasted)
20. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Presents Christmas morning, except PJ's on Christmas Eve. Ben's family does one on Christmas Eve and I am still getting used to it.
21. Most annoying thing about this time of the year? Being away from work when stuff has to get done kind of stresses me out. AND...not having kids yet and being asked why by people that just don't know.
22. Favorite ornament theme or color? We just have red and gold ornaments, but I like it. I love my mom's tree with her Santa Clauses.
23. What do you want for Christmas this year? Clothes, a vacuum, more money, a baby...haha, don't think that's something anyone can get for me, huh?
Now I am tagging...Lindsey, Kimmie, Tiff and Rachelle

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Surgery Update

I just wanted to let everyone know that the surgery went well. Ben might take a second to put one of his funny updates on, but mine is just information. Sorry!
I went in for surgery yesterday at 1PM up at LDS Hospital in Salt Lake. They did laparscopic bi-lateral drainage of my cysts, then burned them so that they hopefully do not come back so quickly. They also did excision of what endometriosis they could, which is more than either of my other surgeons have done and makes me very happy. Oh, and then I had my appendix removed. That was at my special request. I know, I sound like one of the wierd interns on Grey's Anatomy. Who asks to have a piece of their body removed? Well, if you knew the kind of horrible tests they put me through the last time I went to the ER just to make sure it wasn't my appendix, you would understand why I asked. I don't want them to ever have a reason to question it again. So, they removed that and then were done. The doctor came out and talked to Ben when they were done. He also gave him a video, which is so awesome to have but kind of disgusting to watch. Dr.Peterson told Ben that that all went well, but he did up by dosage of the suppression medication I am on because the endometriosis was a lot worse than he originally thought. I probably could have told him that, but no one believes me until they see it:)
So, now I am just recovering, which seems to be going pretty well. I was lucky to have a wonderful surgeon that seemed to know exactly what he was doing.
I appreciate everyone's thoughts and prayers. We are hoping this is the last of these, at least for a while.

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Life

So, I wish I had more to share, more to blog about but I really don't. But, I get so frustrated when other people don't blog and I haven't added anything for months. I will just give you a quick life update on the Crisantos:

Fun: We have been traveling and playing a lot the past month or so. We had the chance to go to L.A. for Thanksgiving and spend the week with my entire family. It was so much fun and I was glad everyone was able to be there. Some of us stayed with Kristen's family, while the rest of us stayed at a house we had rented in Tarzana. The house was a perfect fit and gave us just the room we needed. We were one block off of Ventura Blvd and had quick access to everything we needed. We went out to eat, the girls went and saw Twilight, we played the Wii, had a YUMMY Thanksgiving dinner at Kristen's, played the new Guitar Hero World Tour, and just had a good time all around. We also got family pictures taken. That ended up being quite the fiasco. We didn't have a photographer, so Tiff had to use her magic skills with a tripod. Then, the park we had planned on going to for the pictures had burned to the ground in the most recent fires. There was still smoke when we pulled up. But, the pictures turned out beautifully. my sis-in law is quite talented. The weekend did also involve lots people getting sick, but we still all had a blast and I am so THANKFUL that our THANKSGIVING turned out so great!
We spent this weekend in Afton Wyoming, and I was able to go to Jackson Hole for my first time ever. It was fun, short trip. We will also be traveling to Oregon on the 19th of December for Christmas and to see Ben's little brother, Archie (the dog was named after him), who just returned from his mission. We are so excited!

Work: Ben and I have both been keeping ourself busy with work. We have great jobs and are really so blessed to work where we do and with the people we do. I have been very sick a few times in the last couple of months and it has taken both of us away from our jobs a lot. We are blessed to be where we are and have boss's that are understanding about our situation.

Health: Since I already mentioned it, my health has not been the best. I had another stint at the Emergency Room about a month ago. It was NOT fun and I would tell you all about it, but no one wants those details. I did end up being admitted this time, which I have never had happen. For the first time in my life I spent the night in the hospital. I never want to do it again! But, they did give me the chance to vote from my hospital bed, which I thought was awesome! I am actually having another surgery on Tuesday of this week, hopefully the last one for a while.

Kids: The health always leads into this subject nicely. Ben and I met with a Reproductive Endocronologist in November. We had made the decision to move forward with IVF and thought we would have to do surgery and then have the go ahead. We weren't that lucky. The doctor felt that surgery was the right move (see above paragraph), but that my body is not ready to go straight to IVF. So, we will be on a suppression medication for 4-6 months after surgery and then see. I have been assured that the side affects of this medication are nothing like Lupron, so it shouldn't be that bad. But, it is disappointing to just have to wait again. We are still thinking and praying and deciding on what the next step is in the kids area.

School: Ben is almost done with his semester and just ready for the BREAK.

So, as you can see, life is just moving forward. I haven't been taking many pictures lately, so I don't have any to post. I hope this wasn't too much reading. We hope all is well with everyone and wish everyone HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN!

Tomorrow is Bens 26th birthday and I wanted to pay a small tribute to the man who has become my best friend. I just love the idea of you guys getting to see a small part of who Ben is through these pictures. If you haven't met him, you are missing out. I wish I could tell you all of the wonderful things about him that I fell in love with, but there just isn't enough room or time. I will just tell you a few. Ben is funny, smart, diligent,sweet, polite, he loves kids and they LOVE him, he loves to watch and play sports and is always willing to try new things, he is great with his young men, he is a wonderful leader, a great friend, a total momma's boy, committed, honest, faithful, a great husband...I can go on and on. I am so blessed to have him in my life. Babe..I love you, I have loved you since the moment I watched you play your guitar in Chris's house in Sacramento, and each day I find something that makes me love you more. The past 3 years together have been amazing and can't wait to see what the future holds. Happy Birthday!


Monday, October 13, 2008

My wife is, well, special...

My wife is eccentric but that's why I love her. As for the whole even thing, when we first got married I would purposely rub one side of her arm or shoulder then I would walk away and not rub the otherside, it made her agitated, needless to say it was hilarious and awesome at the same time.I wouldn't make things "even" like she wanted. I remember it would drive her crazy. Also the whole repeated prayer, she still does that. Except this time, she puts curses on me, in Mandarin. Oh and some nights I'll have quick conversations with her because she talks in her sleep. One of these nights I'm going to record our late night, incoherent talks and post them on the web. I love my wife.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Tagged

My sister in law Tiffany is officially the first person to have tagged me. I think I have been glad to stay away from this, but I feel it is my responsiblity to do it since someone finally did tag me. So, I have been tagged to list 6 unspectacular quirks about me. Since most of you who know me, know that everything about me is spectacular, you know this is going to be very difficult. Just kidding!

1. I rub my tummy. It's a habit I have had forever and I am not sure where it started. I might have started to rub it to make sure my stomach wasn't getting any bigger, or it might be because I always had a stomach ache, but either way it became a habit. My sister, Rachelle, always points it out when I rub my hand across my tummy. It's just a small sweeping motion and most people probably wouldn't notice, but it is definitely a weird quirk.

2. I have a THING about being even. If someone hits me on one arm, I really will ask them to hit me on the other. I try to eat an even amount on each side of my mouth. Everything needs to be even and symmetrical. It's a little weird, and I am trying to get over it, but it's a quirk.

3. I don't do this anymore, but I used to have a little "chant" or "saying" that I would repeat every night before I went to bed. It listed everything/everyone that I cared about. I think it was kind of like a prayer of gratitude, but also a short little thing reminding Heavenly Father of the things that were important to me. I did it every night before I said my prayers. When I think about it now I think it is weird, but I could not sleep at night until I read off my whole list.

4. I have to unplug everything (other than the big appliances) in the house before I leave in the morning. I am always afraid my house will burn down if I don't.

5. I weigh myself at least every morning, usually morning and night. It's pretty much an obsession and I don't function well if i don't know how much I weigh that day. Ya, somewhat pathetic, I know.

6. I have a stuffed pig that I have owned since I was like 3 years old. It may not be a quirk, but it has stayed with me for 28 years and is still going strong. I used to sleep with it every night and it has lived everywhere with me. I even took it to China.


I am not sure who to tag, but I will post this and then figure it out!

Rules:
1.Link to the person who tagged you
2.Mention the rules on your blog
3.Tell 6 unspectacular quirks about you
4.Tag 6 following bloggers by linking to them
5.Leave a comment on each of the tagged blogger's blogs letting
them know they've been tagged.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Remember Who You Are?

While growing up, whenever I would leave the house, my parents would say those dreaded words, "Remember who you are". I didn't really understand what they meant, but I knew it was a reminder to make good choices or else. Now, as I am a little older and have had more experiences I have come to realize who I really am and why I need to remember. I come from a heritage of amazing people, my parents being among them. I also have grandparents that I am in awe of. These people have lived their lives in ways that show me how I should live mine.

Being LDS, we are taught to follow the example of the Savior. But, maybe the Savior is too distant for some of us, maybe we need someone closer to us, someone in our lives that has learned to follow the Savior and live their lives in a way that will bring true happiness. Today, I was reminded via email by my little brother that my family has that in our parents. I know that each of you has someone like this too. Ben has parents and grandparents that have lived awesome lives, and are another example to us. They are now a part of who I am. This is a reminder to each of us to look around, to find and follow the examples of greatness around us, to remember who we are and where we come from, to show respect to those people who have come before us. I am a Johnson and a Crisanto. Who are you? Please REMEMBER!

(Adam's email below)
"We are Johnsons, and for that alone we should be eternally grateful and walk around with nothing but a smile on our face every single day.

Mom and Dad recently came to California to visit and I realized that I was jealous that most of you live closer to them, and to each other than we do. The main thing me and Tonna dislike about living in California, is that we are so far away from the people most important to us (and I want to ensure you, you are most important to us). I also want to remind you of another realization that I am reminded of after every visit I have with our parents…

I have simply to follow the example of my parents and I will be successful in every single aspect of my life. I came to this profound epiphany many years ago and I am still so far from actualizing it, that sometimes I disappoint myself, most especially in the way I treat my wife. But every time I talk to mom and dad, every time I think of them, and especially every time I am able to directly interact with them, I am reinvigorated to be less like the rest of the people I am surrounded by and more like them. I use the phrase “I have simply to follow the example” not because it’s easy, but because it is a single solitary goal to shoot for. An example to follow that will, in my opinion, lead to every single other desire that I want for myself and for the people around me. How amazing to know how to go about your day, how to interact with your coworkers and engage in business, how to carry yourself, and most importantly how to treat your spouse. I struggle daily with many of these things, but it is encouraging to know that I have such a sure foundation to build upon.

I have interacted with a great many people in my short 27 years, probably many more than most my age. Consequently, I have discovered that the world is filled with good people, but also with neurotic, weak willed, dishonest people who are unable to overcome their need to satisfy themselves or to put anyone else before themselves. They are filled with selfishness, greed, and with a pathetic amount of self-pity and emotions other than happiness. “Self pity is our worst enemy, and if we yield to it we can never do anything good in the world”-Helen Keller. I don’t think I have heard another quote that reminds me more of my father.

In my anniversary card from Tonna, she called me a rock. I think of that as one of the stronger compliments I have received because that is how I have always thought of my mother, and to be likened to her is flattering to say the least. She is an unwavering rock upon which I have always been able to depend, to look to for guidance and acceptance. Not only solid in her dependability, but in her character; exhibiting honesty, charity, and kindness of an unchanging nature. A few weeks ago, I had a Co-worker comment on the way I helped out my supervisor, who is generally an unkind and condescending person, especially towards me. This co-worker said she could never act like that towards my supervisor after everything she has done to me. I said nothing but I instantly thought “You were not raised by my mother.” How much easier it must be to treat people well after a lifetime of watching your parents do nothing but.

As I said before I meet many new people on a daily basis. But I have honestly never met anyone I strive to be more like than my parents. I just wanted to remind everyone who we are. And I wanted to thank mom and dad for coming to visit and especially for being themselves.

Adam and Tonna Johnson"